As The World Turns

It’s been almost 18 months since the whole world was turned upside down. About 70 weeks since our lives all irreversibly changed. Roughly 500 days since the worldwide pandemic started it’s very own chapter in future history books. Twelve thousand hours since anybody was able to say with any certainty what would happen the next week, the next month or the next year. Around 720,000 seconds since we first heard how dangerous the Coronavirus/Covid-19 could be to any of us.

We’ve all had very different experiences in the “new normal”, (I really hate that saying.) Fortunately, most of us got lucky and weren’t affected by the actual virus, staying healthy and safe the whole time. Sadly, hundreds of thousands of people around the world, have lost their lives. The families and friends of those victims will forever remember this time.

Nurses and doctors were pushed to the limits, making incredible sacrifices to keep themselves, their families and the rest of the population, safe. Hospitals that were already severely understaffed and underfunded, were expected to magically have all the space and equipment to help all the people suffering from the virus. Many morgues were over crowded and running out of space for the deceased.

Schools and daycares were shut down. I myself was in school when Covid hit, so my program was delayed causing the 11 weeks to turn into 6 months…and I got lucky. With children having no school or daycare to attend during the day, many parents were forced to stay home. The lucky adults were able to continue to do their jobs remotely, but many had to take unpaid leaves of absence or permanently leave their place of employment. “Essential” workers continued working, struggling to find care for their children and to keep themselves safe, added a great deal of extra pressure to their already stressful jobs.

I am greatly relieved, as I’m sure most of us are, that the world seems to slowly, but surely, finally be opening back up. With the vaccine rollout, and over 70% people (in my area) already having both doses, people are starting to venture back out into their communities. However, the pandemic, and the reopening of things, has created anxiety in many people.

Whether your anxiety is about going back to work or going back to the salon for your first haircut, it’s going to be rough on many people. There are many businesses struggling to find employees, but there are just as many, if not more, people who can’t find employment. People are in limbo and it’s a big nasty circle for lots of them. The schools and daycares are planning to open fully in September (again, in my area), so people are starting to plan their return to the office. But what happens when a couple weeks, or a month later, the schools have to shut again? Limbo, no one knows what’s going to happen. So really nothing has changed since March 2020.

Myself, I’m very hesitant to make any sort of plans for anything. Whether that’s a haircut or a camping trip, or repairing my truck or replacing the dryer, it’s all the same unknown. I’m extremely lucky that my partner has a steady full time job, (he’s one of those essential workers I mentioned) but who knows if or when that could change. I care for my elderly grandmother and she lives in her own home still. It’s always on my mind, what if something happens and she ends up in the hospital? She will be alone, no visitors allowed (as far as I know) and she doesn’t speak English, what will her care look like and how will those nurses and doctors that are already so stressed be able to communicate and care for her? So, I do my very best to make sure she’s safe and healthy. That’s all I can do.

One way or another, we will all be feeling the effects of Covid-19 for a long, long time. Until we’re all completely on the other side of this, please take care of yourselves and your families. We never know what’s going to happen next as the world keeps on turning.

Expect The Unexpected

Murphy’s Law…we’ve all heard of it. Murphy gets cursed when the thing you least expect to happen, happens! You’ve made sure to check all the little things off your list, and end up forgetting something major. You just bought the milk and it doesn’t expire for 3 more weeks, and yet it curdles as soon as it hits your coffee…when you’re running late for work. Planning to go camping in a tent? You can be sure that Ol’ Murphy will send the thunderstorms.

Murphy decided to pay us a visit a week ago. We got very lucky to be given an amount of money to spend on something for ourselves, instead of the kids, house or bills, so we decided to upgrade the MV Wreckoon to a larger boat.

MV Wreckoon

A few weeks ago, we went up to Ottawa to look at a boat. It was nice, needs some minor work, but other wise, pretty much what we are looking for. AND it came with a trailer! When we left, we were discussing what we thought about the boat itself, and my comment to Bill was that there was something wrong with the trailer. I don’t know trailers well at all, so I wasn’t able to point out exactly what I thought was wrong with it, but I knew there was something “off.”

We came home and talked about it over the weekend and the following week, and decided that we were going to offer the guy a price and see what he says. He didn’t like our price, but we did come to an agreement of $2000 less than he was asking, it was a fair price. We let him know that we would come up again with the other truck in two weekends time, and pick up our new boat and so Bill started the countdown of days!

Picking up the Phoenix

We should have realized, that Murphy was planning something really epic when we got there and all 4 of the trailer tires were completely flat. Thanks to a nice lady who let us use her compressor, that was corrected pretty quickly. But then….the trailer lights won’t work…Bill and the guy checked all the wires and could not figure out what was wrong, so we decided to take a chance and drive like that since it was the middle of the day. We both looked over the trailer, truck and the hook ups to make sure all was good and we hit the road.

I’ve never seen, let alone driven, a trailer like this. It has surge brakes instead of disk brakes. No big deal, Bill’s driven one before. I noticed when we were hooking up and just before we left the the hitch of the trailer was really strange looking too. Like I said, I don’t know trailers so I didn’t realize something wasn’t right.

The wonky hitch

The drive from Ottawa, back to Golden Lake is about 2 hours and 15 minutes. All was good and we were cruising along, just heading into Orleans on Hwy 174, hitting just a wee bit of construction. Stop at a red light, then get going again. Go over one small bump in the road, then another….I’m telling you, neither of these bumps would have spilled a full coffee with no lid on! They were nothing! Except they must have been something because the next thing I hear is metal hitting the road. I figured it was the ladder off the swim platform falling off, it’s cracked and we have a replacement, so no big deal. I looked at Bill just as he yelled “Holy F*ck! We lost the trailer!”

Not where the boat should be parked!

Turns out that those two little bumps, coupled with the fact that the trailer hitch was completely worn out, (which we didn’t know until after the fact), caused the boat to tip a wee bit backwards and the hitch UN-COUPLED!!! The chains held for a few seconds, but they straightened out into almost straight lines.

We got so lucky! Bill stayed completely calm, and knew what to do. There was a median to the left, and it’s so deep that if the trailer/boat had gone that way, we’d have been picking it out in pieces. Luckily there was a lane to the right that was blocked off by construction cones. Bill was able to steer the lose trailer into that lane without the boat tipping and in fact, without the truck or trailer even touching one of the construction cones!! I couldn’t believe it. The whole thing was over in seconds! It’s taken me longer to type this paragraph then it did for the whole situation to unfold.

Unfortunately, the only way that Bill could steer the trailer was to let it hit the back of the truck…twice. Again, it was the trailer that hit the truck and not the actual boat. The truck, has some damage, but fortunately, the frame of the truck wasn’t bent and it should be a fairly simple repair.

Poor Power Wagon

We had just passed a Canadian Tire, so we hopped in the truck and zipped over there to get new chains and a new bigger size ball. I was super nervous leaving the boat on the side of the road like that, but we had no choice, and it was only for a short time.

Turns out that the bigger ball was too big, and the one that we were using was the correct size…that’s when we figured out that the hitch was super worn out. We attached the new chains, added some ratchet straps to the back of the boat, (securing it to the trailer), put a wee little pin in the lock on the hitch just as an added measure, and got back on the road.

We drove the whole distance at only 70-80km/h with our four ways on and it ended up taking a bit more than 2.5 hours to get back to Golden Lake. The Phoenix arrived safe and sound, but Bill and I lost about 5 years off our lives on that trip, so we decided that the boat would have to stay there until we got a new, safe, secure, proper sized trailer.

Bill and Uncle Dennis went over the boat and made sure things were as they should be, then launched it. We went out for a small tour just to see what it was like, and to see if I got seasick on it (which I didn’t), but the ride was just too short.

Beautiful sunny day at Golden Lake

Now, we wait….the new trailer should be finished being built in 2-3 weeks and we can go retrieve our boat. Until then, Bill is like a little boy at Christmastime, anxiously waiting to be able to play with his new toy, and I’m praying that Thursday’s events are not an indication of what the rest of our time with The Phoenix is going to be!

Welcome

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Hello! Welcome to my new blog, Catt On The Run!

I’m an ex-wife, mom of 4, fur-mama, truck driver, caregiver and crafter. I was first diagnosed with depression and anxiety almost 20 years ago and have been struggling with it ever since.

I decided to write this blog to get my story and experiences out into the world. Hopefully someone who feels as alone and confused as I did, will find their way to these pages and see that there are others who have gone through and how are still going through, the same things.

Especially since March 2020, the beginning of the Covid-19 worldwide pandemic, many people including myself, have felt very isolated, maybe my little blog can bring some of us together.

Don’t think that this blog is going to be all serious all the time, I love to have fun and fully intend to share those experiences as well.

I look forward to connecting with you!

Catt